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The
Signposts on the Road to Becoming a Compulsive Debtor
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1.
Being unclear about your financial situation. Not knowing account
balances, monthly expenses, loan interest rates, fees, fines,
or contractual obligations.
2. Frequently "borrowing" items such as books, pens,
or small amounts of money from friends and others, and failing
to return them.
3. Poor saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement or other
not-recurring but predictable items, and then feeling surprised
when they come due; a "live for today, don't worry about
tomorrow" attitude."
4. Compulsive shopping: Being unable to pass up a "good deal";
making impulsive purchases; leaving price tags on clothes so they
can be returned; not using items you've purchased.
5. Difficulty in meeting basic financial or personal obligations,
and/or an inordinate sense of accomplishment when such obligations
are met.
6. A different feeling when buying things on credit than when
paying cash, a feeling of being in the club, of being accepted,
of being grown up.
7. Living in chaos and drama around money: Using one credit card
to pay another; bouncing checks; always having a financial crises
to contend with.
8. A tendency to live on the edge: Living paycheck to paycheck;
taking risks with health and car insurance coverage; writing checks
hoping money will appear to cover them.
9. Unwarranted inhibition and embarassment in what should be a
normal discussion of money.
10. Overworking or underearning: Working extra hours to earn money
to pay creditors; using time inefficiently; taking jobs below
your skill and education level.
11. An unwillingness to care for and value yourself: Living in
self-imposed deprivation; denying your basic needs in order to
pay your creditors.
12. A feeling or hope that someone will take care of you if necessary,
so that you won't really get into serious financial trouble, that
there will always be someone you can turn to.
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